Consider this: There are more than 20 million NRI as per a release from Morgan Stanley. Of these more than 50% have moved out of India in the last 20 years when globalization became an important driving force for the world economy and Indian talent started getting recognized world over. First it was the engineers and doctors, then MBAs and software professionals. Now even Indian teachers, lawyers, nurses, practically everybody has career options outside India.
In this globalized world, the societal structures have changed so rapidly that it has left a lot to be desired in terms of creating services that meet the challenges for the globalized Indian and the parents of NRI.
Just to give you an example of this change, three decades back when I was a child, we had one family in the whole of the neighborhood who had their son working abroad. In fact that was how even today we refer to them whenever such discussions happen. Also, there was only a single Ambassador car in the whole neighborhood and it was a matter of pride for the whole neighborhood's children to push it on every Sunday for it to start and get a free ride on it for a few minutes. Each neighbor was known by name and everyone had time for everybody, I guess as they did not have 125 channels and no remote to flip through all of them at least once a day. Chitrahar on Wednesdays and Sunday movie were perhaps the only occasions when you could find everyone inside their homes unless someone was particularly interested in Krishi Darshan too! Those were the days...
Current Situation
Now, we hardly know our neighbours, have so many cars that the most neighbourhoods resemble car parking lots, multiple TV sets to cater to the everyday increasing channels with their own "Breaking News" story and what not. Although the younger generation has rapidly adapted to the new India that is striving to become a world power, this change has not been so kind for the elderly in the country. Our parents and elders in our society had actually never imagined in their wildest dreams to see such a situation. Although most are proud that their wards are doing so well in their careers, but their inadequate preparation both mental as well as financial to cater to a situation where they would be required to fend for themselves at an age where traditionally all the worries especially of their health were left to their sons has left them struggling to find solutions. Gone are the days when the only responsibility they had as grandparents was to narrate a new story everyday for their grandchildren.
Career or Parents?
So what can be done? Do we compromise our careers and become caretakers of our elders? Or do we turn a blind eye on their problems and be happy to send a financial allowance to take care of their problems. Actually the problems of the elders are more to do with loneliness and assurance than only being financial.
To my mind, the best solution is to develop services that cater to the needs of the elderly in our country. Services that are reliable, trustworthy and meeting the needs of the elderly.
For example, medical care is one of the key areas of concern for both the elderly as well as their NRI children living abroad. However, till date there are not many healthcare organizations that cater to the medical needs of the elderly. It is not that the NRI parent need a super specialized doctor every time, but wouldn't it be great to have a healthcare managers who takes care of the medical needs of the elderly by organizing doctor visits at home, basic investigations as well as provide emergency assistance if required.
Healthcare firms have recently started to recognize this growing problem. There are now firms that are exclusively dedicated to providing medical services at home for family members of NRI. An interesting model that is being followed is by providing avenues for the NRI children to directly opt for medical plans for their parents through e-payment models. This not only provides the adult children an avenue to contribute their bit for providing medical support for their parents back in the country but also provides a sense of relief for the parents who are happy that their children take care of them, a notion that they have grown up with.
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